when u meet someone new, be it just a casual thing or something more serious, are u completely honest about the number of ur past sexual partners? i was chatting with a guy in his early 20's. and he asked me how many men i had been with. i told him i didnt know offhand but gave him an approximate number. he acted way surprised. that many he says. he has only been with 3 women. he said i was too "experienced" and had changed his mind about getting together. now that made me think. for a 36 yr old woman with a healthy sexual appetite, i dont see it as too many at all. and i actually gave him a low estimate. i have noticed a double standard. it is considered ok for men to have been with a number of women. but not ok for women to have too many sexual partners. so my question is are u always honest or do u lower the number or maybe make it higher? how do u feel about someone who has been with a significant number of people?

This is an honest Question i've been with women that have steadfastly said that there is no way that they would allow a man to lick her ass. but durring oral if she was going realy good i'd stop moving with her and hold my tongue out still and she would keep rocking her hips up and down. from clit to taint then she'd lift a little to high and my tongue would cross her rose bud. and before long she would be lifting her hips on purpose pushing her bottom on my tongue on purpose. soon after she'd be riding my tongue with her holes and use her fingers on her clit concentrating on putting my tongue against and into her holes both of them. Usualy loving the hell out of having her bottom tongued and licked as much as her pussy! This has happened several times now!

Is this a common thing?
or am i just a lucky man that so far i've found women that like having there ass kissed?

ladys please respond i realy want to know what you like and how much you like it!

okay...O4L in some cases can make your fantasy come true..whether meeting someone so special you marry and live happily ever after or you are gang banged till you pass out....lol Well my fantasy is to be a stripper for 4 ladies. I want to be the center of their attention. I want the ladies to each touch, suck and do whatever they want to me as I work the crowd... Then one woman and I go the extra mile in front of the group while all get to play. Does that sound horrible or fun? I have one volunteer who is a member of this site and I am looking for the other 3. Any one interested? Larry
P.S. If you are going to blast me, be at least a little nice and not so mean. Hopefully your fantasy comes true some day.

Here are some straight facts if you know any add them!

There are approximately 100 million acts of sexual intercourse each day.

The average amount of time spent kissing for a person in a lifetime is 20,160 minutes

The condom made originally of linen was invented in the early 1500's. Casanova, the womanizer, used linen condoms

Sex burns about 70-120 calories for a 130 pound woman, and 77 to 155 calories for a 170 pound man every hour.

During the female orgasm, endorphines are released, which are powerful painkillers. So headaches are in fact a bad excuse not to have sex.( I PREACH THIS ONE)

Impotence is grounds for divorce in 26 U.S. states.( damn are woman not mean!!)

Cleopatra owned one of the world's first vibrators. It was a small container filled with buzzing bees.( we just like a good vibrator)

The animal with the biggest penis, relative to its body size, is the barnacle. Its penis can grow to 10 times the length of its body.

The average lovemaking session lasts around 15 minutes: Consisting of roughly 10 to 12 minutes of foreplay and around 3 to 5 minutes of intercourse( must not know the men in this group)

Many elderly people can and do have frequent sex: At age 70 — 73% of males are still potent; and 30% of women aged 80 or older still have sex.

70% of women would rather eat chocolate than have se NOT ME! Ill eat my chocolate man satisfy both vravings LO

During our 1st get together, over burgers, we told one another a lot about our desires. One of her numerous revealings: she longed-for sexual activity with a women. She wanted something she experienced only twice in her early days, she simply never had a chance again. Certainly, I said, why not? Afterwards the usual falling in lovemaking activities, including some unbelievable sexual activity, we decided to attempt swinging as a way of allowing her get it on with another women. I asked her if she constituted in having sexual activity with some other adult male. She considered it and said it wasn't her. She needed only me. (A good enough answer at the time.)....Our relationship is entirely about communicating...we discuss everything. As we progressed through with the phases of love, we also attended the Trapeze swing nightclub in Manhattan. She made out with a couple of women, and really enjoyed it. But, to our surprise, we discovered we were both aroused by her being with a different man, and we have been involved with a small number of different couples.....So what does this have to do with love? Sex with other people, we discovered, is only hot, or even fun, if we're connected to one another every moment. Seeing her being pleasured is unbelievably red-hot for me. I love her sexuality. I'm in awe by her sexuality. Occasionally I find like I'm in the presence of a goddess. And this goddess takes her biggest joy in being with me. For both of us, sex with one another is the finest and gets better all the time. Sex with other people makes up additional spiciness. And being with other people has added to our already spicy lovemaking when only with one another. (Which constitutes every night we're together, after about three years.) But it has not been entirely fun....there have been a few bumps on the road, but each one forced us to confront challenges we were stunned to find ourselves dealing with. And to grow together, as well as mature, together....We have discovered ourselves exploring in ways we never imagined possible, or desirous.

I chatted with a fellow today that really surprised me. I always ask potential playmates what their sexual likes and dislikes are--to see if we're compatible. Are they dominant in bed, do they like particular activities more than others, do they like to talk dirty....you get the idea.

This gentleman's basic reply with that he'd do whatever I wanted, he just wanted to have sex. I thought maybe he was just inexperienced, but upon further questioning that didn't seem to be the case.

Is this a guy thing? Do some men just want to fuck and don't care how it's gone about, just as long as they get to cum in the end? I have specific things that really turn me on in bed and that I always tell my partners....I just assumed men were the same way. But maybe I'm wrong.

With the Summer Olympics approaching, I thought it might be fun to make up an O4L version of some summer 'games'

What would your best-event be? How have you trained so you can be sure to win the gold?

BTW ... I think I remember something like this quite a while ago so if I am rehashing an old thread, my apologies)

I've seen the suggestion to have a masturbation party several times.

I'm curious just how far you would consider traveling for the party.

Another question just crossed my devious mind.
If someon were to organize an masturbation event, a huge get together - would you try to participate?

If it was to be recorded video and photo would you still be there?

What if everyone was to get a copy of the video and a couple action photos and group photo?

As for me if I could travel less than a day say 500 miles - I'd be there.

Could someone please leave me a message on how to go about attending the boy toy event? I am a young and attractive (30 yr old) new in town and would like to attend. I am interested in joining a couple. I would appreciate any help as they are not answering the number I've been calling after emailing them. I have photos to show those interested and I'm sure you will be impressed. Send me a message directly through here. Appreciate any help.

Not only did he stood me up weeks before and someone else.
Well for the past 2 weeks , he has been leaving me messages wanting to "cum and make a lot up too me " - I tell him " ONLY if your really sure " . Then I get " I got to get off line and I will call you." I dont hear from him for a few days. OH WELL , this dude has some serious issues to clear up before he can really make promises of wanting to really see someone.
Maybe he has already seen some one from the group or the site ? I dont and dont care. I am getting tired of being set up only to fall down flat on my big fat ass ! ! !
Well Josh , if your reading this - No more setting me up ! Please dont ever contact me again. I am blocking you on ym and here on the site once I figure out you handle once again. I dont play games and I dont set guys up. I back up my talk and let them know I am really serious about meeting. The next step is up to them ! If it happens GREAT ! If not , its another life leason I learn.
So anyways , Good Luck to All and have a great weekend.

Anyone know how to find out the length of time it takes for the Gold Membership to be activated after you pay the fee?

A lot of us adults have some hardcore sexual fantasies. It's not freaky to fantasies about some perverted sexual activity, or forced sex. Just because somebody fantasies about being raped, this does not mean that she or he wishes it to come about in reality.

Most folks start to fantasies about things that they don't want to take place in the real word. There's nothing wrong with that. In your fantasies you should enjoy complete freedom. There's nothing wrong with that, as far as those fantasies stay fantasies. There is no wrong doing and no wrong action and no crime happen, it's just fantasy.

There are other kind of sexy fantasies. These fantasies make a few people to thinking of swinging. In these fantasies people fantasize sexy affairs that can happen in the real world. They picture sex in a lot of different and extremely erotic setting, frequently with multiply sex partners.

A couple could decide to share their fantasies with one another or they may not. This isn't the issue of love or trust, it's just a question of sexual privecy.

All the same if you're a man, and you want your female sex partner enjoy sex the fullest, you should acknowledge her sexy fantasies. If you know her fantasies, you will be able to turn it into reality, you can make it happen.